AHHH The Single Life....

ok as most of u know who reads my blog I am single (again)....sounds like a soap opera waiting to happen but I have learned many things now in this age (my mid 30's) then I ever did in my 20's...What do men want ? Lets see... They want it all...they want you to be hot, sexy, tiny, educated, no kids, employeed and able to jump to every whim they have, Ok maybe not so extreme but you get the picture. The rate I am going I have just had my last relationship. The pic on the dating sites amaze me... WOW I can't compete with the women who bare all their goodies for the camera simply because I don't. I won't bare anything just for a date...and that my dear will keep me single. I joined one of the dating sites...it a free site.. sorry not paying to find a man and seen a few potential candidates who seemed as if they were sincere and not looking for the "perfect woman" and yet no response.. Why would you NOT want me ? I am educated, intelligent, I would rather be shot then work out in a gym but I like physical activities, I am employeed, I can pay my own bills and I can carry a conversation without saying Umm..umm.ummm 50 million times....I own my cars I have no debt ..and damn I am not hard on the eyes either.. ok so my head shot is a little stiff... think outside the box .. its a posed shot .. they always look stiff
so what is it that I lack that a man might want....